I'm going to get Looks like a definite "must-read" for those of us who are serious
The only common factor is that there are no common factors "Ask the Man Who Owns Him is the first book to present, in their own words, the real lives of long-term gay Master/slave couples and families. Sixteen slaveowners and their properties around the U.S. and in Canada welcomed the authors into their homes and spoke candidly about how each relationship started, how it evolved to meet the challenges of living in conventional society, and how it works today. All of these bonds have lasted for at least three years, some for well over a dozen years."
I admit I'm biased because I-and-mine are one of the featured couples in the book, but it's a fascinating read about different Master/slave couples. There are few similarities among them -- some are hot, some are scary -- but they're all real.